Posts with the tag “commitment”

Let's rethink everything we thought we knew about love and marriage by examining Ephesians 5 through a lens of covenant rather than feelings. We're reminded that marriage isn't ultimately about us - it's about reflecting Christ and His church. C.S. Lewis walks us through four types of love, emphasizing that while attraction (eros), friendship (philia), and affection (storge) are important, only covenant love (agape) can sustain a marriage through life's inevitable storms. Agape love is not an emotion but a decision - a daily choice to sacrifice, forgive, serve, and stay even when we don't feel like it. Marriage works when we follow God's order (God first, then spouse, then children), fight for covenant instead of feelings, establish shared faith and mission, and communicate with honesty and vulnerability. Whether we're married, single, divorced, or widowed, reflecting Jesus through how we love others is always more important than who we love. The challenge isn't to find the perfect person but to become a covenant person who chooses love as an act of will, mirroring the way Christ chose us.  Read More

In our journey of love and marriage, we're challenged to move beyond mere hope and into intentional action. The message draws from Genesis 2:24, emphasizing the Hebrew word 'debach' - to cling or adhere. This powerful concept reminds us that love in marriage isn't just about feelings, but about purposeful pursuit and unity. We're encouraged to focus on our own gaps rather than our spouse's, to prioritize their needs above our own, and to create a plan for intentional connection. By practicing daily encouragement, weekly dates, and yearly escapes, we can build marriages that don't just survive, but thrive. The lesson from Revelation 2:4-5 serves as a poignant reminder to return to our first love, both with God and our spouse. This message isn't just about improving our marriages; it's about reflecting God's love and commitment in our most intimate relationships.  Read More

In a world that often encourages us to blend in, there's a powerful call for believers to stand out—not through ostentatious displays, but through a quiet, unwavering boldness that stems from an unshakeable faith. This boldness isn't about being loud or confrontational; it's about living with a conviction so deep that it naturally influences our behavior and choices.The early Christian church was ...  Read More